This is a good reminder. And I sure love that book by Baldwin. Basically highlighted every paragraph. lol
I think it’s hard to unmask, especially a mask of competency, in an ableist world of capitalist standards. But I think you hit it on the nail when you pointed out finding a community that’s safe to be our authentic selves.
That’s where I’m at. Trying to find that safe community.
I try to honor my coping mechanisms (like masking… which for me as a neurodivergent person is something I’ve done almost my whole life) but also try to be unapologetically me in safe spaces. It’s hard. But like you said, recognizing the mask is definitely the first step.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and giving the historical context!
You’re welcome, Toni. And as a fellow nero-being I feel you. It’s a struggle and it can take time but the process doesn’t have a deadline or a destination - we find ways to practice authenticity by learning how to feel safe with ourselves first and then finding the ways in which we allow ourselves to shine ✨
This is a good reminder. And I sure love that book by Baldwin. Basically highlighted every paragraph. lol
I think it’s hard to unmask, especially a mask of competency, in an ableist world of capitalist standards. But I think you hit it on the nail when you pointed out finding a community that’s safe to be our authentic selves.
That’s where I’m at. Trying to find that safe community.
I try to honor my coping mechanisms (like masking… which for me as a neurodivergent person is something I’ve done almost my whole life) but also try to be unapologetically me in safe spaces. It’s hard. But like you said, recognizing the mask is definitely the first step.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and giving the historical context!
Looking forward to delving into your other posts!
You’re welcome, Toni. And as a fellow nero-being I feel you. It’s a struggle and it can take time but the process doesn’t have a deadline or a destination - we find ways to practice authenticity by learning how to feel safe with ourselves first and then finding the ways in which we allow ourselves to shine ✨
Love this so beautiful xx
Appreciate it 🥹🤲🏽❤️🔥